Nuff Said . . . . .

so ive come to learn....

that everyone is definatly not your friend!

more like associates now a days , but hell not even that ; Real rapp.

and im a friendly person and i also give people benefit of the doubt. but get to a certain point

when i feel like yuh feeding me bullshytt !

just because we close dont mean i will not go off and tell yuh how exactly i feel.

Just because yuh call yurself a "friend" doesnt mean that yuh cant be wrong & that i cant call yuh on the shyyt yuh be wrong about. Cause wen i finally go off you will be looking at me likeee wtff !

So if you ever have something to say as a friend i suggest you should say it to me .

causee that tell this friend then tell that friendd mess is very aggrivating . and

there is no need for it . im gettin to old for the childish things in lifee. im actually startingg to see who

my real friends are and i apperciate the ones that i havee discoveredd. . .

To thosee of you who havee been real :

i sincerly appericate it ,,cause thats all i can ask of you is honestyy !

dont do the bullshytt or we might have a falling out.!

Lessons ;

Ive learned that god puts others on this earth to test yuh. . .

thats something that i prove to be true. because how many times a day do you feel like "slappin a hoee"

i would say on avg more than once.

&+ Im just now learning myself and who exactly i wana be.

the people i decide to associate myself with is gettin smaller and smaller. because i know that everyone cant be your friend whether you like it or not. Everyone is not somebody you should trust. It may hurt at first , but we all have to make those scarifices right ? I just know that in the year 2010 my attitude about alot of things will have changed. cause the things that were so to speak " cool " when i was 15 or 14 aren't anymore.

The childish era of my life is very much over. im soon college bound and i plan on being very succesfull in life. No more wasting my time worryin about if your happy or upset with me, that will drive me crazy and give you control over me . Which i promise will never happen !! Not giving anyone the satifaction to say that im stressed over them. Cause its not worth anyones time !

so why even bother with drama , i honestly dont see why people are so concerned with anyother bidness besides their own ; bein all up in somebody elsse ish isnt benefiting you is it ? & its not only girls its dudes too. which just has me smh !

So my the lessons i've learned are:

• keep to myself
• keep out of drama;
• focus on yourself and what makes me happy.
• Always remeber that what others think is just a opinion. & what you think of yourself is way more important !!

- love dijadeedancer(:

Uhhh !

Uhhh !

hayyy peoplee ....

well nuffin intrestingg latelyy.

excet my effin BIRTHDAY

is coming up in less than 10 days ! woohooo (:

& im also very happy to say my boyf and I are very happy !

ohhh and im going backk up northh

for Xmas ; yayyy (:

lls but nuffin furtherr than that .

Causee life is so good right noww.

-Love dijadeedancerr (:

the effin best :

The Double Standard;

The Standard of our societyy

Let me know sumfin please . Why is it ohkay in todays world if a boy so to say "fuxx every girl in the world" ! that is NOT ohkayy at all. its Just NASTY ; thats all it is.

The girl on the other hand gets every name in the book . from hoe to whore. Now that def isnt fair now is it. That just one thing about amercia that i dont apperciatee.

Anotherr thing being discrmination !

I feel as though yess people are very much entitled to their own opinion.

Cause i use mine; but when you find that in school your gettin in trouble for no reason. or yuh dont get the job because of a certain reason. it defintly makes yuh wonder whyy people have to act that way. Evey one is raised differently is wat i was always told. But some people even grown ups dont act as if they have home training ! What is the world coming to ? smh.

As a young women i think there are things that changee; For example when you parents were young the streets were "alot safer" so they feels as though you shouldnt go anywere. And in my opinion parents ARE NOT ALWAYS RIGHT AND DONT KNOW EVERYTHING ! my mom claims that i "know" everything and dont listen , but she doesnt either am i right or am i right ? lls! That just a bone i have to pick with the authority in my lifeee. that also ties into the way i socialize with my peers. Cause i really do believe drama is abosolutly POINTLESS; it just gives people something to talk about and most of the time they have no ideaa wth they talkin about! Which again refers to the pointless part above ^ . Like why waste breathe about a situation that has nothing to do with you, maybe its because yur sistah or "fam" is a part of it. but then again thats there battle ; they wont learn unless they fight it on their own. Cause yuh def wont always be there. So why not mind your own business. But i guess if someone could answer this then there wouldnt be any drama now would there ? NOPE !

So for future purposes just let yur friends handle their business alonee.

And there for yuh forfit all the drama ! and the infamous "he say , she say" cause that aint nuffin but some DRAMA !

The District Of Columbiaa (:

Washington Dc;

The District Of Columbiaa.

-Sonn she from southeast DC likee shyyt.

The only place im ever truly happy. Even with the gun shots, the constant sirens and the bama's laying on the corner on Georgia Ave. From gettin my nails donee , to eating chicken & mumboo saucee. I really do miss my hometown. The people that i went to elmentaryy school , with my first kiss (aaron) ! lls.

My Bestfriend since Ever ! lls;

Miss Niaa "BiggButt" Johnsonn.

I lovee this girl like a sistahh, we been threw everythingg that it dont make sense. From spending weeks at each ovaa housee. To runnin the streets in Northwest dc. To Stayin at your Dada house; For the wholee weekend; From gettin carryout at WorldWings by your aunt house ; Then to our skaten erry saturdayy night wiff your fava & my movaa. The Goodtimes. It was just us and the boyss.

Alex , Kevin, Tyler & , Chuckyy! Yall was my niggahs. Had the funniest Birthdayy parties; And jumped Double Dutch untill the streetlights came one. Man i miss those days theyy were hilarious as shyyt; But not that we older i appericate yuh guys even more now. Cause like yall dont fakee for nuffin ; like i told Zayy we dont hatee sonn ! " we just dont like errythingg " (: I really miss living up there in the winter. Playin in the snow and shyyt. They said yall was the cutest in the school and our grade lls. but ayyyy we the bait sooo i mean shyyt. What else is there to sayy; I Love Yall yungins lls. (:

Pentagon City !

Sonn we had so much funn spending the parents moneyy in this four storee mall. I Lovee these yungins. Xavier, Deontae, & Nia ! True Realigon to Forever 21 !

We Wild when togevaa. And Not to mention We Def are the BAIT (:

More bait than you can imaginee. I Love my bessfrenns.

And for all the people that swear that Dc is nuffin but slum ass monuments.

Its the place on earth that makes me proud to be watevaa girls wana sayy.

whether it be bousy,stuck up, cocky, uglyy.

Cause in my mind trust im think girl watevaa Ill go on you and ya uglyy ass friendss lls ! Ima mess but thats just how i think. being from Dc im real disrespectful , that just the way we aree. I mean you love me or hate me; it dont even affect me. !

Shoutout to my New York Bestieeee:

Minniee; !

Not to mention gogos (: theyy make me smilee like shyyt.

and the bait makes me smile too. But most of all i can count on my besfrens being real with me. But i do have to worry about the girls cause their is some competition there unlikee in Ga. lls

My Badd Bitches (C&B) are about the only ohkayy lookin girls in the BAMA ass south.

I feel like the south aint even my speed to slow. I was taught that were im from yuh have to be independant and do it for yourself. I Saw my movaa raise the strong , outspoken, Dont take NO for an answer girl you see today;

"Tell these bishes that im not the one; Some might get aways but im poppin onee" - Minaj

these girls need to know that the truth.

I Love Were Im From;

I know who i come from because of It.

I will never forget who it has made me.

She is a product of SOUTHEAST Washington DC (: !

Forever & Ever.

-Love DijaDeeDancer(:

straight outta washington dc ;

October 13th;

This is For You. You My Number One !

We Arguee & fight but at the end of the day we get over it. You always say i know how to push your buttons , yes ofcourse i know how to all the things that push your buttons. I know that all people say to you is "Why you with her?" And to be honesst I really could give a dayum what they think of me. But it's only you and me that know the truth. Your friends and mine have problems with Us; But like you said They'll be iight ! & for the longest time i couldnt unserstand why you picked her over me & why you would tell me about it. But i got over it and realized thats what made me wanna be with you even more ! I can say nobody has ever been man enough to tell me something like that or be straightforward with me. I really do apperciate that about you. But you know whats funny ? How EVERYBODY SAID "ALL I CAN TELL YOU IS BECAREFUL" & it got to a point were i had to bite my tongue on alot of shit; cause those same people always talkin about how they know you a "this" or "that" ! But they not coming to see me or on the phone with me; We both hate when people talk about something they have n0 idea about ! causee lord knows that it gets on my damn nerves !

Now on the subject of othaa people talkin shyyt. Like Just shut the fuck up ! Cause it really aint benefitin you or me; keep my damn name out ya mouth. && if he with me and not you there is a reason for that; He made the decision to pick me ! Obviously. I see that this relationship will be easy to keep updated ; cause you know how females & niggahs run they mouth to much anyways. So i can understand that it will be talked about cause when you put to well-known people together . I guess people talk. !

So this to you !

We push eachother buttons but I can see whyy we go together ; cause we both goofyy as hell; And we can talk about everythingg no matter the cause or situation ; I really like that about you. Your my stoopidfacee,pookiee,baby,bayy you name it ive called you it;

But Smileyfacee I think I could lovee yuh lil nignagg lls

Cause what people dont know it that that we have been talkin for more than a month truth be told ! Soo your fathead but makes me happy !

Thanks for the Giving !

Todays Thought :

la familia !

You know how you have that one family that's just crazy & i mean crazy ?

but you stil gotta love em ? well this is her : Katura aka KATUTU ! lls

Yea this the crazyy one in my family.

but she not the craziest ; but on another not why is that you get that one family member that dont know when to shutup or the one that chew with they mouth all full .

lls ! I Love my family though ; they there through the hard time . especially my mother she is my rock ; she can be a pain but i still respect her & love her.

Now on to the nexxt : The pops !

As a little girl i felt like he was good as gold. like he ruled the free world. But as time passed by i came to terms with what he was and what my mom saw that i didnt; When your younger your parents tend to try and sheild things from you that they think you cant handle, but you really dont understand why they do those things. Thinkin that it would just be bettah that wayy. but its truely not ! word to ya motha lls;

But im thankful all my family & the friendds ive been blessed with; I miss my babies too my neices & nephews !

- love dijadeedancerr :)

Mood of the dayy : Restless ! :/

My intro-duction !

This is the intro intro introduction !

To me Dijaa :)

So i figured i find a way to express myself instead of

the usual "diary" So i created this

inspried by my wonderful friend Alicous!

She's @ peacelovelisha.blogspot.com

But anyways. . .im DIJAA from DC;

she i will always repp to the fullest.

Some info about me would be

1. 
   
   Im a effin junior in Hs.


2. 
   
   im the youngesst in la familia


3. 
   
   I love and i mean love to dance


4. 
   
   I can be a brat at times !

That will be all as far my personal info.

But on this Blogg i will includee my moods & personal thoughts.

i can offer you that much lls :)

-Love Dija Dee Dancer :)

Mood of the Day: Sleepyy !